hey all,
I was wanting to start a page about natural remedies for colds, trouble sleeping, that time of the month, etc If you have any thoughts or ideas let me know you can email me cheri@cheriwoolley.com
I’m not quite sure what to write here, I just needed to write. There have been many disappointing things lately, maybe there haven’t been as many I feel there have been, in fact I know there haven’t been. I just get so easily aggitated lately over the dumbest things, But still for some reason I can see the silver lining. Moving to a new place is exciting, finally achieving my goal of finishing school and going on to med school is..invigorating. Finally being able to think ’screw you!’ to the people who said I couldn’t or wouldn’t do it, or that we would never get on our feet is sadly a good feeling. To those people who said our marriage wouldn’t last, our marriage is stronger than yours. They are the ones I pity. I have been emotionally exhausted today, blowing everything off except one thing and just doing nothing. I am looking forward to the quiet privacy of our own place. being able to walk to the kitchen at night in my underwear or pj’s is what I look forward too. I’m not quite sure why I am writing this, other than to get it all out. Last night I worried life could take an interesting turn, that something devastating was going to happen, dispite my intuition telling me things were going to be ok. Its scary how accurate my intuition can be, sometimes I know the exact time things are going to happen, the connection I have with some people. its amazing how strong these bonds can be. I daydream alot, wanting to be on stage or in a jazz club playing a black grand piano wearing a black loose sleeve shirt off one shoulder, singing again. I long to feel real rain, to breath in fresh air off the sound. To be free of this endless state of mind where stress and worry tend to take to over, and serve no real purpose.
New Years Eve didn’t quite turned out as planned, I ended up sick, and so did my little girl, plans for sushi foiled! But I am excited to see what this next year will bring, new years resolutions that will never be kept, (except for health reasons in my case). The last part of 2008 has been interesting for me, I reconnected with a couple people from the past, and mended and understood things that I didn’t ever think I would ever get a chance too. The new year brings a new place of our own to live (YES!!!!) small but ours…alllll ours….
It’s a few days before christmas, and this christmas has been the best christmas so far since we’ve been married, we have experienced a couple ’secret santa’s’ one was left on our doorstep and another was left on my husbands desk this afternoon at work. To whoever you are Thank you.
Remember Us this video brought me to tears. no matter what your feelings towards the military they still need you. Just thought I would share it.
I was having a ‘debate’ with some friends on this issue. First let me say, I have trouble with both candidates, they both have some shady issues. I have the most trouble with Obama, yes he is a good lookin’ black man, but seriously I think that card has been played enough. I have a hard time wanting to take people’s guns away which I can see him doing, ‘live abortions’ which is a nightmare to think about, I want to scream and cry at the same time when I think about it, or hear about it. I believe making abortion illegal is the lesser of two evils. I am sure that it would be allowed, if the mother’s life was at risk, there were serious complications, or the mother-to-be was raped. If you won’t put your hand over your heart during the pledge of allegiance, YOU DON’T DESERVE TO BE RUNNING THIS COUNTRY!! I would like to see him put his life at risk and stand at the battle lines! But legalizing every aspect of abortion just so we can condone women running around spread eagle having a way out is a quite disturbing to me. Obama is running out of excuses, As far as not seeing the troops while in Iraq because they “didn’t need the distraction” is BULL! You need a distraction when you are out in 100+ degrees, dealing with ragheads, I am sure that would have been a boost for our men to meet the man that may very well be the next President of the United States of America, In fact, I have talked to soldiers who said that they would have wanted to meet the man who may be leading them very soon. What about not seeing the wounded soldiers in the hospital in Germany? What does it say in the bible, I was sick and you nursed me? I am sure that a visit from the man who may very soon be leading our country would have given these men hope and motivation to get well. Yes democrats boost the economy which is what we need, but we need to heal families first. Palin is exactly what we need. No one understand deep issues better than a strong women who has a foothold on what really matters, She has a son serving our country, a down syndrome son who she is not ashamed of and did not abort, she also has a teenage daughter who made an idiot decision that many teens make these days, to have premarital sex. She (Palin) is who will bring this nation close together, Our nation can not and will not heal with healing the family first. Yes McCain is shady, but not nearly to the extent of Obama, name 5 things Obama has done to better this country. Obviously he is no P.O.W. but what contributions has he made to this country? (ever notice the similarity obama, osama, it’s a sign…) I’d like to open this up to discussion. Feel free to comment, call me out on what you think is wrong.
Saturday was one of the best days I have had in along time. We gathered at Richie’s house. Me, Brandon, Brittina, Kris, Sara, Jorge, Brandon and Kris. yes….those names are right.. Whenever we all get together everything just seems to go perfectly. It kind of reminded me of garden state -minus the ecstasy. The game we played entailed some very intriguing questions, and…challenges. Brittina had to lick cherry syrup off my stomach as her challenge, which proved to be hilarious, and I’m sure the guys didn’t mind it at all. Sadly we forgot the camera. LOL. Brittina (who is very dear to me) always makes the most off the wall comments which make the night side splitting. After everyone had left But Brandon and I, we stayed and chatted with Richie till 2:30AM. This man amazes me everytime we talk. It was one of those conversations that you can’t even begin to explain, heartfelt, right, the two most passionate men in my life, my husband and Richie. The deeper the conversation got, the more in common we had. I began to see that there are people still left in this world like me. Compassionate, fighting for a cause, wanting to make the world a better place.
Things have been falling into place in my life the last week, I was able to quit working and be at home with my little girl, my saving grace. I’m fulltime in school working to accomplish a goal. My circle of friends has changed lately, and I have the most amazing set of friends I could ever for. My lifelong best friend, my ’sister’ Amber moved down to go to college, her and I have been friends since we were 2. She was there during the most painful years of my life. When we were little we always wanted to go to college together, and it finally happened, the reality of which hasn’t quite sunk in yet. But its funny how dreams you thought had died, or would never come true, always seem to come back around and remind you of how magical life can be. I have missed her sooo much over the last few years. Even when we hadn’t seen eachother in years, we still have that connection. We are still the same. Brittina, who brings a smile to my face everytime I think about her. There hasn’t been a time we have hung out that hasn’t been memorable. She has been a strength to me. We balance each other out. Some people come into your life for a season, and you don’t always know the reason until they are gone, but she is one that I know will always be there.
Well I have decided to completely revamp my site…well….had to revamp my site. so new content and hopefully no more annoying people leaving pointless comments on my page 
but hey the more the the merrier….